How We Got Here: The 70s: The Decade That Brought You Modern Life – by David Frum (2000)

In a nutshell, this book is about the dramatic transition of American society from pre-70s to the new world of the 1970s. Before the seventies, most of the country was naive and trusting. They believed their government and what they heard on the news. They were extremely loyal to the companies they worked for. They attended church and followed its moral standards because it had been ingrained in them, not necessarily because they believed it.

But by the 1970s, people were tired of the way things were. They were sick of the Vietnam War. The lies of politicians were being revealed. The economy was not doing well. People became tired of their monotonous jobs. Many grew weary of their obligations of marriage and child-rearing. Religious devotion was shrugged off. The Civil Rights movement was not accomplishing as much as many had hoped it would. It was a time of great dissatisfaction.

Excerpt from pages 57-58:

Sometime after 1969, millions of ordinary Americans decided that they would no longer live this way.
An early 1970s advertisement for hair dye featured a lovely blonde simpering, “This I do for me.” The ad would have spoken more directly to the times had it only added: “and this, and this, and this.” One could fairly call it the greatest rebellion in American history. It may have lacked the blood and gunpowder of the political rebellions of the past. There was no Boston Tea Party, no firing upon Fort Sumter. But it was more earthshaking than any of the violent uprisings of the past. In hundreds of thousands of kitchens, offices, and classrooms across the continent, Americans in their multitudes shucked the duties and broke the rules that their parents and grandparents had held sacred. From now on, Americans would live for themselves. If anyone or anything else got in the way – well, so much the worse for them. “Clear your mind then,” advised one of the many bluntly titled best-sellers of the 1970s, Looking Out For Number One. “Forget foundationless traditions, forget the ‘moral’ standards others may have tried to cram down your throat, forget the beliefs people may have tried to intimidate you into accepting as ‘right’. Another best-seller urged, “When you say ‘I should do this,’ or ‘I shouldn’t do that,’ you are also in many cases allowing yourself to be trapped by the past, following rules set down by parents, teachers or other mentors that may no longer have real meaning for you in our crisis culture.”

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The Unlikely Felon – by W.C. Young (2022)

Will Young and his sister grew up having an unusually close relationship with their grandparents. The siblings spent a lot of time at Gram and Gramps’ house to avoid their chaotic home-life. Will’s mother had untreated bipolar and schizophrenia, and their father was totally disconnected from his children. Eventually the parents divorced, and the kids were bounced back and forth. In the midst of misery, their grandparents’ home was a place of stability and shelter for them.

Adulthood was much better. Will married his high school sweetheart Kay. They started their own company, offering one of the first 56K internet services in their state. The business grew and expanded.

As time went by, Will and Kay became part of the “sandwich generation”, juggling their own kids, their business, and caring for older relatives. First it was Kay’s mother, who eventually passed away from cancer. Next, Gram developed Alzheimer’s, but with Kay running over to their house a few times a day, the grandparents managed to stay in their house for awhile longer. Will took care of bills and paperwork for them. After Gram was moved to a nursing home, Gramps started falling down a lot and had to be moved to the nursing home as well. Then Will’s father showed up with terminal cancer, and Will had to help him. Gramps’ and Gram’s house needed to be cleaned up and sold, so Kay and Will did that too.

On a cold February morning in 2011, a team of police officers banged on their door with a search warrant in hand. Will and Kay were being accused of stealing money from the proceeds of their grandparents’ house. The nightmare had begun.

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